You never think that it will happen to someone you know. Until it does.
While my book is still in production, our reality is that children are being abused right now. I can’t wait to share these two books with you that I think are great resources for teaching kids about body safety. Click on the links to read more about them on Amazon.
I Said No! A Kid-to Kid Guide for Keeping Private Parts Private by Zack and Kimberly King
and Lauren’s Kingdom by Lauren Book
For the grown-ups, I’ve been reading The Book of Forgiving by Desmond Tutu and Mpho Tutu.
I realized last weekend that I was still holding onto some things. I was holding onto anger and unforgiveness. I asked friends to pray for me last week that I would be able to forgive.
It felt impossible.
I felt like I would always be broken.
Tutu says, “Forgiveness is the journey we take toward healing the broken parts. It is how we become whole again.”
Thursday morning, as I started to pray, my heart forgave.
I know that unforgiveness will tempt me again and I will have to choose forgiveness again and again, but on Thursday a weight lifted and in exchange for the unforgiveness and anger that I had been carrying, I had peace and freedom.
I didn’t even get past the introduction of the Tutu’s book before I started underlining all kinds of wisdom like “Forgiveness is nothing less than the way we heal the world.” and “Forgiveness is the way we return what has been taken from us…”
Tutu says that the first step on the path to forgiving is to tell our story. This really resonated with me because that is exactly what I felt the Lord had spoken to me as I began working through my past.
“Telling the story is how we get our dignity back after we have been harmed. It is how we begin to take back what was taken from us, and how we begin to understand and make meaning out of our hurting.” -Desmond Tutu
“If I tuck my secrets and my stories away in shame or fear or silence, then I am bound to my victimhood and my trauma.” -Desmond Tutu
“When you tell your story, you no longer have to carry your burden alone.” -Desmond Tutu
I can not recommend this book enough for anyone who is struggling with forgiving. And also, do not underestimate the power of prayer. Ask friends, enemies and anyone you run into at the grocery store to pray for you! And, if you aren’t ready to forgive, ask God to help you. He wants you to be whole and He wants you to help heal the world.